HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH???

This topic can be taken in any direction.  As much as I'd like to leave it open...I must narrow it down a bit.  We're talkin' about the sweet, freshness of a new fling or friendship.  It's amazing ladies when we find a man and/or companion in the midst of our busy lives. Whether you work at Bally's, Hooters, or the bank...you have to admit that the routine of your everyday schedule can be boring.  So, when you've found someone to have fun with, it shakes things up!  You start out with simple text messages and it leads into a whole lot of other things if you find yourself really feeling him, right.  There is also the added means of  live communication with skype, bbm, and face time!  New age match making is almost impossible without incorporating some form of technology.  So...how much is too much?  Do you think sexting is a little too far without the commitment of a relationship?  What about skype sex?  How much intimate access do you give to your new fling before the actual commitment ensues??  Just curious on your thoughts ladies.  Guys your welcome to engage in this also if you can handle it...





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Top 5 Reasons Women WANT To Have Sex!!!

We conducted a survey amongst our friends and associates. Most women agree but we decided to make it a little more personal...

*I conducted this interview with Donna...These bullet points are 100% the opinion of @vivaciousmodels...enjoy*

NUMBER 5:
Sex scenes! She is crazy for them! Porn is a little abrasive (unless she's watching herself) lol.  A night of ramantics with candles, awesome food and dessert, and a hot movie will set the mood nicely and make Donna Soublet DESIRE to have sex!
NUMBER 4:
If you have started your interaction with Donna and it has led into an intimate sexting experience, then chances are she is feeling you!  She enjoys mutually acting out fantasies via the cell phone! Chances are when you see her, that sexting will lead into the real thing!
NUMBER 3:
Kiss Kiss! If a man knows how to passionately kiss a woman the right way...this is a definate plus for @vivaciousmodels  She enjoys this old form of 4play. Taking it back to the basics is usually one of the best ways to go.
NUMBER 2:
One word...Intoxication! Donna, feels some of her best urges for sexual activity when she is tipsy. The alcohol makes her body feel an intensity that helps her reach peak arousal.  "Kanye shrug" she says...
NUMBER 1:
DING DING DING Her number one reason for wanting to make love is a man's body! The 6pack and "usher" v cut on his abdomen does something indescribable to her and will almost demand affection from her! This obviously narrows down her options...lol. However, this is strictly about SEX. So, there you have it. If you find yourself intimate with Ms. Soublet chances are you have at least conquered 3 out of 5 of these requirements! Her last words...  "If you're ever able to get to knock out 3 of these 5 things with me...then I hope your 4play game is on point or you took your viagra! This is gonna be a long night!"

*Fortunately for you...I've been asked the exact same questions. Again...enjoy!*

NUMBER 5:
Stress! I know it doesn't sound very sexy, but when I'm going through a lot its the best relief! Temporary... but really awesome relief!
NUMBER 4:
Overwhelming attraction! I can't explain or fully comprehend this one, but when you feel it...you feel it. It's that intense connection or aura that entices you. You know what it is...lol!
NUMBER 3:
A mans energy! This seems out of the ordinary...but I love it when a man has that 'it factor'. Its that sexy assurance and confidence he carries!  We're all tired of the word swag...but you can't deny its affect on people. Well, I can't anyway.
NUMBER 2:
Massages! Ooohh...I love these!!! I find myself on the massage table getting aroused quite often and I realized this is a no brainer for me. It probably should be number one b/c I love it so much!
NUMBER 1:
LOVE! When I'm in love I want to have sex ALL THE TIME! Any and everywhere...and for however long!
My last words..."If you are mine...you're ALL mine...And I'm all yours! Just FYI :)"

Have an awesome Valentines day folks :)

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"I GOT NEXT"

These are the subconscious words of your ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend!  She may never utter them, but they'll be written on her face next time you go through his facebook pics and see the two of them...all smiles!  She's not thinking sloppy seconds..she's thinking one girls trash, is the next girls husband. & rightfully so! You didn't want him...right?!? Why should you even care? But you can't help it...I know, I've been there. 

 You always part ways saying 'I wish you the best' but some how you feel like you are teaching them a lesson because they weren't man enough to make you happy.  However, when you see the new girl on their arm or in a twitpic you realize how bitter you still are.  Well, I've been sent to tell you to GET OVER IT ladies! It wasn't meant to be. & soon enough, you'll be the girl screaming "i got next" when you snag a hotter, more compatible, and more talented beau! :)


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SO MUCH MORE

HAPPY MLK DAY!

Glasses up and here's a toast to all the beautiful Black women out there!  Building, loving, sharing, and fighting for their proper respect and acknowledgment as they grind it out one day at a time to provide and inspire.  Cheers to you ladies!  In light of recent circumstances, I am currently in Ohio for this years MLK day.  My dad gave me obvious, but sometimes taken for granted advice with these words, "Never alienate your family!"  This has hit home on so many levels for me, and I have decided to share one of them with you...You are my family!
For some odd reason (which I still haven't figured out lol) I have been given an opportunity to share my life with you via this blog.  Giving sexy little insite into the mind of a young, attractive and delightfully outspoken female.  I pour out my thoughts on love, sex, relationships and anything else I find interesting.  That being said I will humbly touch on the subject of my body...booty rather! :)
I hope a multitude of young ladies read this and openly comment.  
We are the shit!!!  Breasts, butt, lips, thighs, labias and all!  This should go without saying but NEVER apologize for being you!  Kudos to those women who have recognized who they are and their worth.  Shout out to the ladies who, by any means necessary, hustle their asses off (literally in some cases).  The ones who aren't taken aback by being called a bitch, and who aren't broken when someone tries to ruin their spirits with lies!  We are criticized, belittled, run over, but...we get back up and say Fuck You Very Much and keep moving forward!  I love the woman who understands that her body is an asset that she uses to carry out her purpose, but thats not all she is.  Thats not all I AM!
I heard the most amazing thing today "dreams don't have deadlines".  I want to encourage my family (if you aren't already doing so) to get off your super fly FAT ASS and 'get 'er done'!!  I will be the voice...I will write your song...I will tell your story, because we all have a similar one.  Women who are naturally gifted and beautifully enhanced share the task of having to prove ourselves quite often and when we reach out goals, we must still have that million dollar smile on our faces.  We can and will do it ladies! There is SO MUCH MORE to us than this big butt and smile.  So... I share my love, life, and story to you and with you as well on this beautiful MLK night.  Be the best you!  This has been my 'booty boost' for the evening. :) It starts with love.  Stay encourages and remember...Life is about Love! 

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Snowed In and tipsy...Love, Sex, & Relationships :)

Observe as Khrysti Hill and Donna Soublet ( @vivaciousmodels) discuss their relationship dilemmas and issues finding love...

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"Sweet Spot"

First things first...New Year was awesome!  Hope you all enjoyed it safely.  Now, back to work kids! :)

 Fellas you must keep putting in WORK!  If your lady is still around then she must love you for some reason.  So show her how she makes you feel incredible, just by being her.  Keep the f'ing fire going guys!  Get in that 'sweet spot' with some sweets. There is no specific time of the day or day of the month to do this. Valentines day isn't the only reason to be a "sweetheart"!! Candy, chocolate, and fruit can be implemented in your rendezvous with your loved one at anytime!  Personally, I enjoy all three by myself if you know what I mean ;)

After a long day, pick up some sliced mango or your favorite caramel candy from a grocery store.  Whip cream and/or chocolate can't hurt either! Its super inexpensive and the surprise will entice as well as intrigue her which will make her want more of you!  I know that's what you want. You love to be wanted!  So just do it, my guy, in this easy, sexy, and seductive way.  Sometimes the smallest amounts of effort can award you with weeks of pleasure within your relationship.  Special memories are often times better than the material stuff!  That gucci bag or pair of earrings you got her for xmas could easily end up in the dumpster or the pawn shop the second you piss her off. However, if she were to go to sleep mad, she could easily dream about the time you took a fresh piece of pineapple in your mouth and slowly...well, you get the idea. Remember guys bring the sweets to your sweet spot and safely enjoy! :)

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MERRY KHRYSTMAS!!!

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Sexual Favors...Gifts???

I know times are hard and we all wish we could get away with this!  The recession has people penny pinching and cutting back on porn.  However, sexual favors are NOT gifts.  They just aren't folks!  Perhaps a home made card, a bubble bath, or a foot massage are all awesome gifts that don't require a check book.  Try those! I also understand everyone being busy around the holidays.  Most people have to work harder for less.  So guys... If you're running low on cash and louboutins aren't exactly in your budget, don't drop the ball and decide that "fiya head" will do the job this year! #sityoassdown. Be creative! Be awesome! And Be THE MAN! Show your unfailing love with more effort than xmas eve being the first time you toss her salad! Ladies....this goes for you guys too! Happy Holidays everybody! :)

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"It's Some HOES in this House!"

You know they say "once a good girl goes bad...she's gone forever".  Does that really hold any truth now a days? Can a hoe be miraculously transformed into a housewife?  In my opinion, of course she can!  Nothing is ever what it seems.  The girl online presumed to be the biggest whore could be way more selective than the preachers daughter at your local church.  Ones definition of a whore varies by so many different things anyway.  I had a guy tell me the other day that he would much rather make the preachers daughter his wife than the young lady online posing semi nude because she "looks like a hoe".  I don't think he realized how DUMB he sounded.  You men want us to look presentable, communicate softly, have limited partners... BUT be able to please you in any and every way possible behind closed doors!  All this BEFORE you even consider us a "wifey".  Because that would require more things like excellent credit, no more than one child, formal education... Just to name a few things.  WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE!

Speaking from experience... One of my best friends likes to consider herself a "Retired Hoe".  She's been around the block and back baby, and she's awesomely capable of being the wife of any mans dreams!  And I also know a church lady who's sucked more dicks than all the gay boys I know... Combined!  So really guys... Let's evaluate the pussy before we consider smashing it.  A hoe CAN be a housewife!!!  Once she has experienced life the fast way, and comes to her senses... She more than likely has that incredible blend of being street smart and business savvy! You know, a lady in the street but a freak in the bed!  She isn't limited to a one dimensional way of thinking and is better suited to build a life with you and be a complete partner as long as she has finally recognized her purpose... In my opinion of course!  "Its some hoes in this house, its some hoes in this house....retired hoes lol!"  What do you guys think? Comment as freely as you please!

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"Heads OR Tails?"

I bet you have no idea where I'm going with this one. Don't worry its juicy... Keep reading!

Question of the day... What would piss you off more, to know your mate gave a lot of "head" or to know they got a lot of "tail"??? Huge question right! For me, I PRAY that I don't end up with one who scored big with either of those! In a perfect world I'd marry a virgin with a fat,  ahem, uhm... dick, for lack of a better word, lol and teach him EVERYTHING. (Hey I can dream big if I want to) BUT, I have yet to experience that. So, to answer my own question, I think I would be more upset about 'heads' rather than 'tails'. Hey, they have yet to make a condom for your tongue and most women don't utilize dental dams. #justsayin So I think I would be a little more at ease to know that my mate safely penetrated more tail then he 'dined out'! 

Me and my friends were having this discussion and surprisingly not everyone agrees. Some understand the exchange of souls and spiritual connections that are made through intercourse and would rather their mate haven't experienced too much of that. Other fine oral sex to be repulsive if given or received by more than a few partners. Like I said this is a juicy little subject, and a real one at that! Tell me how you feel about this and don't hold back!

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Social Network Love?

Is it possible? I mean really? There are so many social networking sites now a days I really can't keep track of them all. But, is it actually possible to genuinely fall head over heels in love with someone you met online??
I think its B.S. to be honest with you! I have a hard time getting to know and understand a man that I'm involved with even after months of dating. There are always new things you learn from people the more you are around them. Even married couples are still getting to know each other years into the relationship. So, to have no physical contact, and to not be able to read body language or exchange intimate facial expressions how can one really consider an online love connection. 
Now when I say, intmate facial expressions, I am not talking about "fuck faces"! I am referring to things like enjoying a persons smile, and if their eyebrows raise when they get excited or surprised, and if their nose flares up when they get mad, or how they look at you when you tell them 'I love you'! Those are all special parts of intimacy in my opinion! Even down to the type of hormones that come alive in you with a single kiss. It's MAGICAL! That my friends can not be experienced online! However, I am aware of people getting married and having full, healthy relationships from online dating or hooking up through these social networks. It just isn't for me... What do you think?

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"I can do ANYTHING you can do BETTER!!!"

Fanatic or Alicia? I know I might piss a few people off with this one, but what's the difference?? Alicia was rumored to be dating Swiss WHILE he was still married but supposedly separated, right. Fantasia allegedly did the EXACT same thing!  Why has she received so much slack, bad press, and humiliation while Alicia is praised and congratulated?!? I don't believe in dating a man with a girlfriend, much less a WIFE and I'm not judging those who do, but why can some get a pass and not others?
In my opinion, Alicia's perception in the media is honored because of her humanitarian work, fanbase, and record sales. Fantasia's workhorse doesn't come close to any of those 3 on Alicia's level so she seemingly 'gets away with it'. Sad, but true! I believe both situations are none of my business, but I HATE that no one is willing to put both of them on the same level as far as the overall situation is concerned. Do you agree??
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"We Put In WORK!"

Yes I said it! A lot of women do! We get a bad rap for being sexy, opinionated, and catered to when really we are self sufficient, hard working, and too nice! We are such people pleasers sometimes and often go unappreciated! Imagine dealing with a man, his career, lifestyle, ego, AND baby mama drama! While still being there for him emotionally, AND ALWAYS sexually! ITS WORK!!! 

Ladies its time reclaim ourselves, love ourselves, and be ourselves! We MUST do this in order to have sanity. We MUST work hard at our purpose for life to be worth living! That boy ain't goin no where... Trust me! And believe it or not, they love it when we DO US! Stop chasing, fighting, caking (<---awesome word), tweeting, facebooking, and calling HIM. He sees you...and if he knows better he will acknowledge and appreciate you! Right guys?!?  Keep PUTTING IN WORK!

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Let's Stay Together!!!

Hypothetical Situation: Okay, I cheated! You've been in love with me for almost a year and things have been dope so far.  Our friends like each other, you baught me a puppy for my birthday, and your mom thinks I'm a great catch.  Yes we both have busy schedules and life has been quite hectic lately, but I have given you NO reason to believe that I am unhappy with in our relationship.  However... a month ago we accidentally switched phones (we have the same blackberry) and I was able to see a few questionable bbm mesages from a couple ( TWO different) ex flames.  Now, at first I panicked.  My heart was beating faster than I could breath and I immediately thought of 3 different ways to kill you and get away with it. (I watch 'Snapped' on the lifetime channel...A LOT) Then, I realized "these are just mesages".  Its not like I walked in on you banging my best friend or saw some obscene party photos tagged to you on your facebook page. 
 "Its JUST mesages...right?" This thought ravished my mind for an entire week before I noticed 'hot boy' at the gym I work out at.  Tall, beautiful, and a slightly better body than yours! We bump in to each other at the water fountain, and of course the flirting begins. Long story short... a month later I tell you I'm on the rooftop hanging out with friends, when really I'm on 'top' of Him! Lord forgive me...I'm pacing and burning a whole in our rug the next morning when you leave for work, wondering if I should tell you or not. "Or maybe I could just write a post it and leave it on the fridge after I pack all my stuff and runaway".
This is horrible, I feel bad about it...but I am able to justify everything because of your BBM's I discovered a while back. You arrive home later in the evening to my face full of tears and I begin to pour my heart out about what I did while placing the blame on you...What do you do? #SeriousQuetion Follow me & Respond


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For Colored Girls...A Must See!!

If you haven’t went and seen “For Colored Girls” you are really missing out. Its Tyler Perry’s adaptation on the play by Ntozake Shange's "For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow is Enuf”. The movie has a great cast of black actresses including Janet Jackson, Kerry Washington, Loretta Devine, Anika Noni Rose, Kimberly Elise, Phylicia Rashad and Thandie Newton. (Almost any movie that has Janet in it I’m going to see, I think she’s a wonderful actress, I’ve loved her since “Poetic Justice” ) The movie is based upon the relationships that the women have had with the black men in their lives. Without telling you how the movie unfolds I will just let you know that one relationship involves domestic violence, another involves a woman always taking back a cheater, while still another deals with a woman who has many different sex partners on a regular basis. This movie was so moving, I swear I almost cried 3 times. It was so touching because I could honestly see people I know and even myself in some of these characters, it was that realistic. We as black women honestly take a lot from our black men and we should start thinking about our own well being first. “For Colored Girls” was very deep and factual, unlike most of Tyler Perry’s movies. Perry really redeemed himself when he made this movie. The world we live in is full of it…By: Megan Chase www.twitter.com/meganchase1

Mixed Nuts!

Aren't we all interracial? Lol, I mean seriously! Why is this such a big deal. Men are men, and woman are awesome! Colors and cultures just make it more explosive and adventurous. I heard recently that the rate of interracial unions has doubled over the last 10 yrs. It happens to be that mostly Asian women are at the top of the list. The most saught after now a days, I guess. The same person who told me that asked if I was offended. Why?? 

Offended that black men more commonly prefer an asian sensation when they decide to step out of the crayon box! Who cares! I love all the different mixes and blends. We are ALL mixed nuts! Who am I to judge?!? I have no problem meshing with the endless rainbow of colors from the darkest to the light bright whites! :) I love all MEN! I could be with anyone if they have the right character!! Color is optional! Oh YEA "booty boost" YEA 




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You Know What Love Is?

Good question right… Most of us don’t! Whether we’re married, engaged, dating, messing with, or just plain fuckin’ around!  Actually, we could be totally in love with someone and never even have met them, Ha! Any of this is possible! I believe now that God is love! However, I managed to maintain a 5 year relationship with an ex boyfriend and came out of it still not really knowing what love is! How is that possible…Well, the same way its possible for a man to ask a woman to marry him NOT because he’s in love, but just because he doesn’t want her to be with anyone else! Go figure right.

Now sex…I’m pretty awesome at that! I know sex a helluva lot more than I know love and MOST of us can agree with that. (sad but true). I decided to be apart of this blog so I can explore and learn with you people! I’ll give a little of this and that and an exchange of info is greatly appreciated!  There’s your “bootyboost”’ for the day, Until next time…

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'Bag Lady' or 'Bad Bitch' ???

Question of the day! And here’s another one…Do men even care about having a good girl anymore?  This concerns me! And here’s why…It gets personal because I’m going to let you in on a little secret about me. I’ve been head over heels for someone who told me I was “too much” for him and in turn he married the lamest bi…. Uh, female in the world!  (I was in college people, so don’t bother trying to figure out who the guy is. Lol!) “Too much” meaning, attractive, smart, funny (I like to think), and multitalented!  I guess he opted for someone who didn’t have as much going on so he could feel more important…or less insecure!  What a dick…thanks for sparing me I guess! Ha!

*bag lady—defined as a homely or sheltered female , lame in social standards, reserved, unopinionated, and unfashionable.

So with that being said….how many of you men prefer a ‘bag lady’ or a ‘bad bitch’? The answer seems like it would be so obvious…’bad bitch’ right! Wrong! MOST men (via my own personal research) feel more comfortable and tend to have a deeper connection with the ‘bag lady’ types. “Those bad girls are used to the attention of many men and often don’t know how to please just one” –anonymous male.  On the other hand there are guys who won’t date anything but the ‘bad bitches’! They are well adjusted and often times too arrogant to feel that a woman can outshine or underrate them.  Either they know it makes them look good, or they would rather not settle for a more homely looking mate to complete them on their journey through life! Interesting subject right….let me know how you feel about this ‘BootyBoost’…

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Do Nice Guys Always Finish Last?

I'm not worried about wether they finish last...I love the fact that THEY FINISH!  Don't get me wrong though, I love the duchebags and the assholes because they can still be nice guys!  The 'nice' ones in my opinion are the men that are respectful and free hearted when they don't have to be. Manners are a part of His character and respect is His middle name, but he will never let anyone run over him.  


When it comes to love, nice guys start the race!  They get the party started and go at a steady pace.  The crazy, disrepectful losers get mad when they miss the first hurdle and quit! Lame!  Nice doesn't mean pushover or cornball, it means stable, loving, and open.  Wide open!  When it comes to their hearts and pockets!  Here's the booty boost for today,  Nice guys finish... #thatisall
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Pocket Size or Penis Size???

That is the question!  This topic is so funny amoung females b/c if asked to the opposite sex..."Oprah or Halle?" 75% of men are definately going to choose Oprah.  But we women sometimes feel the need to hold back on this answer b/c we don't want to look bad. Lol!  However, with these particular options we're either going to be viewed as a goldigger or a nympho.  
Both of those don't add points to our perception.  So have fun with it!  Allow me to elaborate a little... As a sexual and independant grown woman, I must say I can appreciate a nice penis, as well as an abundant pocket size.  I really do prefer a little of both.  On the flip side, my friends vary in their decisions.  One opps out for an awesome penis and my other girlfriend prefers her mate to have inches on his wallet instead of his "johnson".  What do you ultimately decide?  I want all the juicy details on today's booty boost via...www.twitter.com/KhrystiHill