Yes I said it! A lot of women do! We get a bad rap for being sexy, opinionated, and catered to when really we are self sufficient, hard working, and too nice! We are such people pleasers sometimes and often go unappreciated! Imagine dealing with a man, his career, lifestyle, ego, AND baby mama drama! While still being there for him emotionally, AND ALWAYS sexually! ITS WORK!!! Ladies its time reclaim ourselves, love ourselves, and be ourselves! We MUST do this in order to have sanity. We MUST work hard at our purpose for life to be worth living! That boy ain't goin no where... Trust me! And believe it or not, they love it when we DO US! Stop chasing, fighting, caking (<---awesome word), tweeting, facebooking, and calling HIM. He sees you...and if he knows better he will acknowledge and appreciate you! Right guys?!? Keep PUTTING IN WORK!