HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH???

This topic can be taken in any direction.  As much as I'd like to leave it open...I must narrow it down a bit.  We're talkin' about the sweet, freshness of a new fling or friendship.  It's amazing ladies when we find a man and/or companion in the midst of our busy lives. Whether you work at Bally's, Hooters, or the bank...you have to admit that the routine of your everyday schedule can be boring.  So, when you've found someone to have fun with, it shakes things up!  You start out with simple text messages and it leads into a whole lot of other things if you find yourself really feeling him, right.  There is also the added means of  live communication with skype, bbm, and face time!  New age match making is almost impossible without incorporating some form of technology.  So...how much is too much?  Do you think sexting is a little too far without the commitment of a relationship?  What about skype sex?  How much intimate access do you give to your new fling before the actual commitment ensues??  Just curious on your thoughts ladies.  Guys your welcome to engage in this also if you can handle it...





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"I GOT NEXT"

These are the subconscious words of your ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend!  She may never utter them, but they'll be written on her face next time you go through his facebook pics and see the two of them...all smiles!  She's not thinking sloppy seconds..she's thinking one girls trash, is the next girls husband. & rightfully so! You didn't want him...right?!? Why should you even care? But you can't help it...I know, I've been there. 

 You always part ways saying 'I wish you the best' but some how you feel like you are teaching them a lesson because they weren't man enough to make you happy.  However, when you see the new girl on their arm or in a twitpic you realize how bitter you still are.  Well, I've been sent to tell you to GET OVER IT ladies! It wasn't meant to be. & soon enough, you'll be the girl screaming "i got next" when you snag a hotter, more compatible, and more talented beau! :)


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"I can do ANYTHING you can do BETTER!!!"

Fanatic or Alicia? I know I might piss a few people off with this one, but what's the difference?? Alicia was rumored to be dating Swiss WHILE he was still married but supposedly separated, right. Fantasia allegedly did the EXACT same thing!  Why has she received so much slack, bad press, and humiliation while Alicia is praised and congratulated?!? I don't believe in dating a man with a girlfriend, much less a WIFE and I'm not judging those who do, but why can some get a pass and not others?
In my opinion, Alicia's perception in the media is honored because of her humanitarian work, fanbase, and record sales. Fantasia's workhorse doesn't come close to any of those 3 on Alicia's level so she seemingly 'gets away with it'. Sad, but true! I believe both situations are none of my business, but I HATE that no one is willing to put both of them on the same level as far as the overall situation is concerned. Do you agree??
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Let's Stay Together!!!

Hypothetical Situation: Okay, I cheated! You've been in love with me for almost a year and things have been dope so far.  Our friends like each other, you baught me a puppy for my birthday, and your mom thinks I'm a great catch.  Yes we both have busy schedules and life has been quite hectic lately, but I have given you NO reason to believe that I am unhappy with in our relationship.  However... a month ago we accidentally switched phones (we have the same blackberry) and I was able to see a few questionable bbm mesages from a couple ( TWO different) ex flames.  Now, at first I panicked.  My heart was beating faster than I could breath and I immediately thought of 3 different ways to kill you and get away with it. (I watch 'Snapped' on the lifetime channel...A LOT) Then, I realized "these are just mesages".  Its not like I walked in on you banging my best friend or saw some obscene party photos tagged to you on your facebook page. 
 "Its JUST mesages...right?" This thought ravished my mind for an entire week before I noticed 'hot boy' at the gym I work out at.  Tall, beautiful, and a slightly better body than yours! We bump in to each other at the water fountain, and of course the flirting begins. Long story short... a month later I tell you I'm on the rooftop hanging out with friends, when really I'm on 'top' of Him! Lord forgive me...I'm pacing and burning a whole in our rug the next morning when you leave for work, wondering if I should tell you or not. "Or maybe I could just write a post it and leave it on the fridge after I pack all my stuff and runaway".
This is horrible, I feel bad about it...but I am able to justify everything because of your BBM's I discovered a while back. You arrive home later in the evening to my face full of tears and I begin to pour my heart out about what I did while placing the blame on you...What do you do? #SeriousQuetion Follow me & Respond


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